Assalamualaikum semua.. Ni post yang kedua untuk hari ni.. Tetiba semangat nak tulis sebab I've got something to share.. ^^
Ok, in every post, there is some topic to talk about.. So, today I wanna write about 'Konflik Nilai' or 'Krisis Nilai'.. *Ni sambungan daripada topik yang dipelajari waktu kursus kat Grand Continental Hotel dulu... Do you know what is 'Konflik Nilai'? Situasi ni selalu sangat kita hadapi.. Boleh dikatakan norma dalam kehidupan.. Situasi ni selalunya berlaku antara 'senior' and 'junior' (kalau kat asrama), antara golongan tua dan muda, golongan profesional dan biasa, golongan lama dan baru, bahkan, antara kita dan ibu bapa pon boleh berlaku! So, have you got an idea what is 'Konflik Nilai' is all about?
Erm, I'm not sure about the EXACT meaning of it, but 'Konflik Nilai' berlaku apabila seseorang datang mengadu masalah kat kita, tapi kita tak nak selesaikan, MALAH kita meremehkan masalah yang dihadapi oleh orang tu..
Contoh 1 (situasi di asrama) :-
Junior : Akak, macam mana nak guna mesin basuh ni?
Senior : Alah, nak guna mesin basuh pon tak reti, takkan kat rumah tak ada
mesin basuh kot? Tulah, mesti selalu harapkan mak atau bibik je yang buat kan? Hesh!
Contoh 2 (situasi di rumah) :-
Adik : Abang, tolong ajar adik buat kerja Sains ni.. Adik tak faham la..
Abang : La, yang tu senang je, takkan nak kena ajar kot. Cikgu kat sekolah tak ajar ke?*(hoho, yang tu kejam) =p
Contoh 3 (situasi di kedai telefon) :-
Mak : Amboi, telefon ni canggih sangat, macam mana nak tulis mesej?
Anak : Mak ni, itu pon tak tau..bla3.....
*(tak baik betul!)
(AMARAN : Jangan tiru contoh2 tersebut di mana-mana sahaja anda berada! Sungguh kurang sopan!)
Haha..itulah antara contoh 'Konflik Nilai' yang berlaku zaman sekarang.. Senang cerita, CONDEMN orang! Ha, antara sebab UTAMA berlaku 'Konflik Nilai' adalah kerana ketinggian pengetahuan dan keluasan pengalaman seseorang yang merendah-rendahkan kekurangan pengetahuan dan kecetekan pengalaman orang lain.... Tak baik tau buat camtu..Kedekut ilmu namanya tu... (hmm..kadang-kadang aku ada terbuat gak.. Tapi, manusia kan tak sempurna dan tak pernah terlepas daripada membuat kesilapan..) So, kalau dah sedar tu, hopefully janganlah diulang kesalahan yang sama lagi.. Sama-sama kita memperbaiki kesilapan diri dan berubah ke arah yang lebih baik.. Mudah-mudahan Allah mempermudah juga urusan kita.. Ameen... =)
Lamanya tak update blog... Bukannya busy pon, it just that I don't have the mood to write something..but still got many stories to share.. Tak pelah, nvm about the past.. ;)
So, for today...Today is 27 December 2012.. Whoaaa..do you realize that we almost at the end of the year??!!! Ya Allah, cepatnya masa berlalu... Rasa macam baru je lepas tengok bola Malaysia lawan Indon dekat Indonesia dulu yang bikin gawat habis tuh! Tup2, tahun ni, 2-2 pihak pulak yang kalah..haha.. *I'm not a 'kaki bola' pon..Tiba2 cakap sal bola pulak.. =p
Hmm.. And I can still remember, those times when I was in deep pressure because I can't fit in my new life at my new school... Huhu..those times, full with tears.. That's why I'm labelling, 2012 is Tears Year! If I think back all those experiences I faced in this year, it just bring more pain than laughter.. =( BUT, whatever it is, I am grateful with what I had faced.. Experiences is the best teacher right? If I don't face all those obstacles and challenges in life, I would not be able to grow matured, right? EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON. Now, I can slowly see the reasons...... *I can't believe that I'm actually had already past a year in that new (not so new) school! So, there is just one more year left.. I hope 2013 is gonna be a better year.. No more tears I hope!
However, there's something that I still can't understand.. Hmm..nvm.. What I can do is just avoid it for the time being..I don't wanna face that kind of problems right now cause it surely can disturb my focus in facing the MOST IMPORTANT YEAR - SPM 2013... So, close the book of <3 !!!
Honestly speaking, I never meant to hurt anyone's feeling.. Humans aren't perfect right? So, I know there are times which I did mistakes without realizing it.. I think, the best way to avoid problems is trying to be honest.. Honesty also can avoid many misunderstanding.. But there are still risk that we have to take by being honest, because sometimes, 'Kebenaran itu menyakitkan'... Don't you think so? Hmm.. (O_o)
Hey there.. Listen to this song.. I know I'm a bit 'kuno' cause this song was the soundtrack of the Narnia - Prince Caspian, which was screened on 2008 (agak lama kan? =p) Tapi try dengar la.. I love this song because it has a deep meaning.. Look at the lyrics below, and you can make your own assumption.. =)
THE CALL - REGINA SPEKTOR
It started out as a
feeling
Which then grew into
a hope
Which then turned
into a quiet thought
Which then turned
into a quiet word
And then that word
grew louder and louder
Til it was a battle
cry
I'll come back
When you call me
No need to say
goodbye
Just because
everything's changing
Doesn't mean it's
never
Been this way before
All you can do is try
to know
Who your friends are
As you head off to
the war
Pick a star on the
dark horizon
And follow the light
You'll come back
When it's over
No need to say good
bye
You'll come back
When it's over
No need to say good
bye
Now we're back to the
beginning
It's just a feeling
and no one knows yet
But just because they
can't feel it too
Doesn't mean that you
have to forget
Let your memories
grow stronger and stronger
Til they're before
your eyes
You'll come back
When they call you
No need to say good
bye
You'll come back
When they call you
No need to say good
bye
Wanna know what I think about this lyrics? The first paragraph shows that I have a feelings of nervous, scared, etc..which are all related to Sijil Pelajaran Malaysia [SPM] 2013, which will determine my future and also tells about my last year of being a high school student next year, which is the sad feeling to separate with my friends... :-/ Then, that feelings grow into a hope, a hope to get a flying colours result, 9A+ [Ameen!] =) and a hope that I will never lose contact with all my friends..
'A battle cry' - for me, a battle which is full of tears, tears of fear, happiness, pain. and so on..
'I'll come back, When you call me, No need to say good bye' - I will never forget my friends, as long as we have the 'ukhwah fillah', insya-Allah our bond of friendship will never end, Friends till Jannah! =)
The next paragraph, for me, it's mean that everything will change after SPM.. We will face the real world, the reality of life.. But, it doesn't mean that we never know how to handle ourself in journey to be a better person.. We already received the education to prepare ourself to face the challenge in real world.. The only basic thing that we must find is just good friends, friends who can support us and always remind us for good.. In the journey of life to be an adult, obviously we need to be independent.. No more families around us, especially for those who further their studies in overseas.. So, only friends we have, and they play a big role in shaping us, and facing the 'war', war to achieve our dreams in world and hereafter..
'Pick a star on the dark horizon, And follow the light' - for me, it means the 'nur' or 'hidayah' from Allah..which means that whenever we feel lost, feel like there's no hope or way out in any problems we faced, just remember, there's always 'light', given by Allah to His servants, and we will ONLY get that if we always remember Allah, obey His orders and leave His ban.. and just DO not forget to PRAY..
'You'll come back, When it's over, No need to say good bye' - Somehow, no matter how far we go, no matter how high the dreams we had achieve, we still need and will come back to the origin ; our own families, homeland, etc..
Then, next paragraph, have meanings that are related to the previous phrase, which is about back to the origin.. We can't deny, that in this world, they're still some people who had forget about their origin, especially after they had achieve pleasure in their life.. In easy words - LUPA DIRI.. Ish3..It's definitely not a good thing! So, how can we avoid this bad demeanor? = Always do reflection about everything that we had did daily [MUHASABAH DIRI], Insya-Allah. ^-^
'Let your memories grew stronger and stronger' - Means that every memories contain a thousand and billions of experiences that we had gone through.. Have you ever heard an idiom - EXPERIENCE IS THE BEST TEACHER ? Then, we should let the memories stay inside us, which will then give us some kind of motivation to do the best in the future!
Yeehaa..! >_< That is all that I can say about the song.. How I interpreted it..hehe.. I know la the real meaning that was written by the lyricist was absolutely different from my interpretation.. But, hey, this is my blog, where I express my OWN opinion.. ;)
P/S : Wanna share some 'chocolate of our heart' [santapan jiwa] / [motivasi diri] which I get from my junior, Liyana Ismail.. She is sooo nice! And this is her expression of opinion about REGRET ; a word which I fear the most:
regrets are not always a bad thing. regrets plays a big part in life and that's what makes you a life. nobody's perfect and nobody will be. being cautious 24 hours a day, doesn't that sounds regret because ur too busy worrying to face mistakes? regrets are a good thing in which you will think twice about doing so in the future. but at the same time, make sure ur not stupid enough to make a fool outa ur self b'coz the first time it is a real mistake, the second time is a choice. :)
